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Girl Please

Things that a man should automatically do to show he really does love you. 

  1. Surprise you once in a while
    1. A man should show you he really cares by surprising you on random occasions. To be surprised is once of the best feelings in the world. It is the best because you are unsuspecting. It comes truly from the heart because he planned it all on his own. He put the time to plan it out. If he does not surprise you ever then maybe it is time to look into a  real man and not a boy. He should definitely surprise you with a Sacramento Limo. Our a limo anywhere where you live. That would be the most amazing feeling ever. Make sure to leave some hints around the house.
  2. Pay for your meals
    1. A man should pay for your meals, only if you can truly afford it. Of course that are student men or others that cannot afford paying their girls every meal and it is understandable. But if you could, you should. My man has a good job and he does not mine paying for me all the time and we are two years into our relationship.
  3. He is your handyman
    1. Make sure your man is a real man and he likes to work with tools. If your man does not like to work with tools then you are dating a woman. There needs to be a desire to help around the house if you are the one cleaning and cooking. However, I think that the chores should be separated fairly. I guess what I mean more is that there is desire to help you out in simple situations and want to help you.  If you ever need you AC fixed then maybe do not let your boyfriend fix it unless he really knows what he is doing. On the other hand just call the ac repair professionals in your area.
  4. He does not go to the club ( every weekend)
    1. Hello ladies! If your “man” is going out to the club every weekend, is that a little suspicious?  Why isn’t he hanging out with you. Is his excuse that you are underage? HAHA Girl, you just been played. Your man should not go to the club with out you and or your man could maybe go alone, but on special occasions like a homies birthday.
  5. He really love you
    1. It is really quite obvious when a man really loves a woman. Everyone around knows it and are grossed out by it. He will talk to other people about you and make sure they know you are his. He will make sure you are happy at all times. He will notice all the little things that you always do. He will annoy you. He will respect you. He loves you.



What is Love?

What is love?

Some people say that love is the most powerful emotion that someone can experience.

The strange thing is, is that most people really do not know what love truly is and how it works. Saying the word love is different than actually feeling love. The word love is used as an expression of affection towards someone else. Love is a strong state of being, that has nothing to do with something or someone else. This is the best and purest kind of love.

The 7 kinds of love feelings are: natural affection, the love you share with your family. The love that you have for your friends. Sexual and erotic desire kind of love. The divine love that is unconditional love. Long standing love. The love of a married couple. The love of the self.

The love you feel for your lover is not the same as the love you have for your mother. Even the love for your partner changes in time. That is why people separate. The love changes. You feel different emotions with different people.

However, we use the same word to describe so many different things. It is easy to understand the confusion made while communicating. You can say “ I love you” to two completely different people and have it mean two different ways.

What you feel is the right side of your brain. You language is controlled by your left side. If you use the word “love” 10 times a day with different events, it loses its power. You need to understand the seven different states of love. Awareness is the secret to love.

Do not abuse the word love. Use other words where you are not addressing emotion towards other people.

I love cars. I love my dogs. I love my family. I love my job.

Say: I have passion for animals, I have passion for what I do.

Loving, enjoying, and passion are 3 different emotions. It is important to know the true meanings of the words. Not only to communicate with others but to also experience the meaning.